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Dear Diva,
I forgot to mention that when we started, we were both seeing other people. He told me that he had broken off with his girlfriend early this year. I, however, am still with the same person that I was seeing when the two of us started our affair. I am not sure if I can truly trust this guy. After all, if a guy can cheat with me, what’s to stop him from cheating on me in future right? At this point in time, I truly believe he has not been unfaithful to me…Read More

Savvy Sundays – 10 Signs He Thinks Of You As Just A Booty Call

All Bootylicious Divas should be savvy when it comes to making good choices in relationships. Sometimes that may mean knowing when a relationship is going South, making good choices when starting new relationships, or knowing something as simple as when friendship is turning into something more. Sometimes we have to face some not so pleasant facts about a relationship, and sometimes we may need to know when it is okay to drop our guard.

Savvy Sundays, articles specifically written for Divas who want to be more savvy, more intuitive, and more aware of the signs that our relationships may not be all that we may envision or wish for. Or perhaps serves as reassurance that we may be moving along in the right direction.

Today’s Savvy Sunday Countdown, 10 Signs He Might See You as Just A Booty Call.

Many of us have, or will at some point in our dating lives, find ourselves involved with that guy who is just interested in one thing, sex on a regular basis. Often times, this guy is not very upfront with his intentions and what you may think is a potential relationship may never be anything more to this guy than a guaranteed romp in the hay.

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Bootylicious Rule #18 Be Prepared

What do we do when something happens in life that we think we cannot handle? Do we lose our minds? Are we reduced to a helpless state? Do we become lost in a downward spiral that we cannot pull ourselves out of? Why do we let devastating occurrences sneak up on us, and completely take over our lives?

My solution to dealing with the issues that seem to attack us out of no where is to plan ahead. We plan weddings, we plan outings with friends, we even plan for times when we will no longer be here. We should also have a game plan for how we will react to the craziness in life so that when the time comes, and it will, we will not be completely lost and hopeless.

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Bootylicious Rule #5

Sometimes ladies, we just have to switch it up. We have to change things a little, do something different, keep it spicy, especially those of us who are in marriages or exclusive relationships.

Every diva runs the risk of getting stuck in a rut or stagnating from time to time. It is very easy when we have children, and work, and other day to day monotony to let ourselves go and become complacent. These are the times when we need to do something that will pick us up, and give us some pep in our step. One of the simplest ways to do this, is to change something about the way that we look. Our hair, an outfit, new makeup, or even a complete makeover.

Every few months, I try to switch things up, mainly because I get bored easily, but also because I am always wanting to keep everybody guessing. With me, you never know what you’re going to get. I may wake up one woman in the morning, and by night time, I am someone else completely different.
No, I don’t have Multiple Personality Disorder, (at least I am pretty sure I don’t), I just truly believe that variety is the spice of life.

If you have been feeling a little down, bored, or just plain blah, it is very possible that you just need a little change in your life. Don’t be afraid to get a cute sassy, haircut, or do like I did this past weekend, and add more hair for a really sexy, glamorous look.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Me with very short, sassy cut. Stunning, but short.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Me after playing beauty shop this weekend, stunning and a bit glamorous.

Okay, if that seems like too much work, you could stop by your local drugstore and buy a new lip gloss, part your hair a different way, or wear heels if you always wear flats. Today, try just one little thing that will feed your inner diva and I guarantee, you will feel fabulous and bootylicious for the rest of the week.

 
Bootylicious Rule #6