Okay, so the other night, I was watching that Celebrity Circus show and to my surprise, I saw that Stacey Dash, actress from the movie and series Clueless was one of the celebrity competitors. I always thought that she was a very beautiful young lady, but aside from a music video a few years back and a sigthing by my hubby in an electronics store in Marina del Rey even more years back, I hadn’t heard much from her.
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I can’t imagine that there is a person alive in America that doesn’t know what a MILF is. It is probably one of the most popular and positive acronyms to describe older attractive mothers to come our way in a long time. But I do take issue with the acronym in it’s most popular form, so I have modified it to mean Mom I’d Like to Feel or Mom I’d Like to Freak, or even Mom I’d like to Fall in Love With for our purposes. I don’t know, I think it could work.
Anyway, I have been known to be called a MILF a time or two, and I have to say, that even though I can’t imagine ever being like the mother in American Pie where the whole idea began, I can’t help but think how flattering it is to be thought of as young and sexy. It can truly be a confidence booster, especially to a woman who is close to 40 and knows first hand how things don’t always stand up, stay in place, or flex as much as they used to.
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The next time you go out, and you find that your middle looks more like a muffin top than a pancake, choose a top in a dark color that draws attention to your cleavage.
Make sure your muffin top is a slight one, not a whole spare tire hanging over your pants, and also make sure the skin is completely covered.
With an attention to the cleavage, who will be looking at your middle when there is all that juicy deliciousness up top?
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There is a wide misconception that being sexy means being naked. That wearing a low cut blouse or having half your butt hanging out is a sign of true sexiness. This can’t be more wrong. But unfortunately many people have bought into this, which is why we see more and more women and especially teen girls being willing to take it off or show a little bit more to get noticed.
Sexiness has nothing to do with clothing or nudity, sexiness is a way of being, a state of mind. I wish I could yell it from the tallest building or make billboards for all to see and understand. Sexiness is most often not about sex and it is really is in the mind of the beholder.
As with everything though, there are some general things that go along with being sexy. So let’s talk about it. The first thing that comes to mind when thinking or describing what’s sexy or for our purposes, what is a sexy woman, I have often heard that it is in the way that she carries herself.
A sexy woman, no matter what size or shape feels very comfortable in her skin. It shows in the way she walks, sits, stands, and even her facial expressions. A sexy woman has a certain fluidity to her movements, she is usually very graceful and deliberate. Of course this isn’t always the case, there are exceptions. Some women are very sexy in their clumsiness. Not the kind of clumsiness where she walks like a linebacker, but clumsy like when she walks on her tippy toes in heels because she thinks that she is probably going to fall.
I have also heard it said that women who are smart are very sexy. Something about bookworms that seems to drive men crazy. So ladies, it is okay to read, or speak on an intellectual level, or to know stuff. Chances are, this is going to make you more desirable than if you stand there twirling your hair and playing helpless and dumb. Although, I am sure that these things have their place too.
One of the qualities that is sexy in both men and women is confidence. There is just something so appealing about a confident person. Someone who knows what they want, and how to get it. Someone who walks with their head held high, and who has a certain swagger. To me, this is the sexiest quality of all.
So when it boils right down to it, it doesn’t really matter if we are showing just enough skin to avoid jail time, or if our cleavage is up to our eyeballs, or even if we know the latest pole dancing tricks. What matters is how we feel about ourselves, how bootylicious we think we are even when no none else does and how we project our own personal brand of real sexiness to the world around us.
Have you ever been out and about during the course of your daily life and happen to run across someone who clearly got dressed without realizing what they looked like from behind? I am not talking about someone who threw on a pair of sweats or shorts to run out of the house on a quick errand. I am talking about people who clearly are heading out somewhere, took the time to get dressed, may have even coordinated the outfit over some time, but obviously didn’t take the time to check out everything from all angles. Especially the angle that shows that side of you that you normally don’t see but everybody else can.
I have seen individuals with fluorescent underwear not peeking out, but hanging out of the top of their pants, skirts and shorts that are clearly too high in the back, but look just fine from the front, and panty lines so deep that they made the person look like they had four cheeks instead of two.
I have to believe that there is just no way that people would walk out of the house like that if they actually knew what was going on literally behind their backs. And how do you tell some complete stranger that their panties are making their butt look like the four square game that we used to play in elementary school, or that you can actually see their cheeks peeking out and waving at you from across the room and they are not even bending down?
It just breaks my heart to see otherwise attractive women who take time to painstakingly apply their makeup, ensure that their hair is perfectly coifed, and even shave or wax all of the hair from their bodies, and pay obscene amounts of money for an outfit and forget to look at how their backside may or may not look in that brand new pair of pants.
Before you leave the house next time, take the time to look in the mirror, turn around, bend over and squat, really see how the outfit looks from every angle including how that dress looks when the light hits it. Because seriously, if I have given up bras, do you think I am going to wear a slip? Nah, I don’t think so. But I am not gonna let anyone see the goodies through my skirt either.
And if you don’t have a full length mirror, ask someone in your house to check you out before you step out into the world. If there is no one in your house, go to a neighbor’s house. No it is not the end of the world, and you may be just fine with the attitude that ignorance is bliss, but try to do whatever you have to do to ensure that you put your best face and your best bootylicious assets forward. Because really, do you want to think that someone is writing blogs like this about you?
Exactly, I didn’t think so.
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The under wire always comes out just enough to poke you right in the most sensitive spot at the most inopportune times. Like when you’re giving a presentation or talking to someone really important. You can’t just say excuse me while I adjust my boob because the stinkin piece of metal is boring a hole through one of my mammary glands… Read More
Remarkable is her name
A black urban beauty
walking down the street
Remarkable is her game
an enigma to every man
she meets
Remarkable is her smile
most intriguing there ever was
Remarkable is a wild child
because Remarkable is
as Remarkable does
Remarkable is her walk
stirring the males
whenever she passed
Remarkable is her style
a woman of insurmountable class
Remarkable is the lady
every girl wants to be
Remarkable so remarkable
never met another as remarkable
as she
Inside of me
is a me
no one ever sees
there is a me
with ideas
with plans
with a lot of love to give
Inside of me
there is a me
who does know the answers
who knows where
she wants to go
who knows what
she wants to do
Inside of me
is a me
who has opinions
who has goals
who doesn’t care
what other people
think of her
Inside of me
is a me
who is renewed
she is guilt free
she is shameless
she is innocent
she is the part of me
that loves herself
that respects herself
that holds herself
in high regard
Inside of me
is a me
that has felt
the hand of God
that is made
in God’s divine image
Inside of me
is the best
part of me
the strongest
the boldest
the biggest
part of me
She is wise
she is beautiful
she is creative
she is brilliant
she is my spirit
and she is
the me
that God wants
the world to see
Sometimes ladies, we just have to switch it up. We have to change things a little, do something different, keep it spicy, especially those of us who are in marriages or exclusive relationships.
Every diva runs the risk of getting stuck in a rut or stagnating from time to time. It is very easy when we have children, and work, and other day to day monotony to let ourselves go and become complacent. These are the times when we need to do something that will pick us up, and give us some pep in our step. One of the simplest ways to do this, is to change something about the way that we look. Our hair, an outfit, new makeup, or even a complete makeover.
Every few months, I try to switch things up, mainly because I get bored easily, but also because I am always wanting to keep everybody guessing. With me, you never know what you’re going to get. I may wake up one woman in the morning, and by night time, I am someone else completely different.
No, I don’t have Multiple Personality Disorder, (at least I am pretty sure I don’t), I just truly believe that variety is the spice of life.
If you have been feeling a little down, bored, or just plain blah, it is very possible that you just need a little change in your life. Don’t be afraid to get a cute sassy, haircut, or do like I did this past weekend, and add more hair for a really sexy, glamorous look.
Me with very short, sassy cut. Stunning, but short.
Me after playing beauty shop this weekend, stunning and a bit glamorous.
Okay, if that seems like too much work, you could stop by your local drugstore and buy a new lip gloss, part your hair a different way, or wear heels if you always wear flats. Today, try just one little thing that will feed your inner diva and I guarantee, you will feel fabulous and bootylicious for the rest of the week.
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