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I forgot to mention that when we started, we were both seeing other people. He told me that he had broken off with his girlfriend early this year. I, however, am still with the same person that I was seeing when the two of us started our affair. I am not sure if I can truly trust this guy. After all, if a guy can cheat with me, what’s to stop him from cheating on me in future right? At this point in time, I truly believe he has not been unfaithful to me…Read More

Savvy Sundays – 10 Signs He Thinks Of You As Just A Booty Call

All Bootylicious Divas should be savvy when it comes to making good choices in relationships. Sometimes that may mean knowing when a relationship is going South, making good choices when starting new relationships, or knowing something as simple as when friendship is turning into something more. Sometimes we have to face some not so pleasant facts about a relationship, and sometimes we may need to know when it is okay to drop our guard.

Savvy Sundays, articles specifically written for Divas who want to be more savvy, more intuitive, and more aware of the signs that our relationships may not be all that we may envision or wish for. Or perhaps serves as reassurance that we may be moving along in the right direction.

Today’s Savvy Sunday Countdown, 10 Signs He Might See You as Just A Booty Call.

Many of us have, or will at some point in our dating lives, find ourselves involved with that guy who is just interested in one thing, sex on a regular basis. Often times, this guy is not very upfront with his intentions and what you may think is a potential relationship may never be anything more to this guy than a guaranteed romp in the hay.

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Five Tips for Dealing With a Player and Surviving

It always amazes me when I see otherwise, strong, beautiful, accomplished, intelligent women lose their minds over a man. I am not talking about a husband that you have been married to or have had children with, who after he lulled you into a false sense of security, decided to go bad. Or a boyfriend who has pledged his undying love to you and has been consistent and honorable for the most part but decides that after a long courtship, he doesn’t want to be with you anymore. Most of us have experienced that kind of heart ache and it is not easy to handle. But at least you had something tangible from the relationship for however long it lasted. At least he was “yours”.

No, I am talking about women who lose their minds over a player. We all know who the players are. I am talking about the man we all know who is not relationship material from day one. The married man who is never going to leave his wife. The booty call guy who rings your phone or pops up drunk after the club. The guy with 3 babies mommas. The guy who’s cell phone is always blowing up and who has five different women on his “top 8” on Myspace claiming that they are in love with him. That guy. We all know him. We all love him, but let’s face it, he is not going to be your husband, he is not your boyfriend, and if your heart is not equipped enough to handle him, then you should probably save yourself while you can and move out quickly.

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