There is a wide misconception that being sexy means being naked. That wearing a low cut blouse or having half your butt hanging out is a sign of true sexiness. This can’t be more wrong. But unfortunately many people have bought into this, which is why we see more and more women and especially teen girls being willing to take it off or show a little bit more to get noticed.
Sexiness has nothing to do with clothing or nudity, sexiness is a way of being, a state of mind. I wish I could yell it from the tallest building or make billboards for all to see and understand. Sexiness is most often not about sex and it is really is in the mind of the beholder.
As with everything though, there are some general things that go along with being sexy. So let’s talk about it. The first thing that comes to mind when thinking or describing what’s sexy or for our purposes, what is a sexy woman, I have often heard that it is in the way that she carries herself.
A sexy woman, no matter what size or shape feels very comfortable in her skin. It shows in the way she walks, sits, stands, and even her facial expressions. A sexy woman has a certain fluidity to her movements, she is usually very graceful and deliberate. Of course this isn’t always the case, there are exceptions. Some women are very sexy in their clumsiness. Not the kind of clumsiness where she walks like a linebacker, but clumsy like when she walks on her tippy toes in heels because she thinks that she is probably going to fall.
I have also heard it said that women who are smart are very sexy. Something about bookworms that seems to drive men crazy. So ladies, it is okay to read, or speak on an intellectual level, or to know stuff. Chances are, this is going to make you more desirable than if you stand there twirling your hair and playing helpless and dumb. Although, I am sure that these things have their place too.
One of the qualities that is sexy in both men and women is confidence. There is just something so appealing about a confident person. Someone who knows what they want, and how to get it. Someone who walks with their head held high, and who has a certain swagger. To me, this is the sexiest quality of all.
So when it boils right down to it, it doesn’t really matter if we are showing just enough skin to avoid jail time, or if our cleavage is up to our eyeballs, or even if we know the latest pole dancing tricks. What matters is how we feel about ourselves, how bootylicious we think we are even when no none else does and how we project our own personal brand of real sexiness to the world around us.
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